How to Apply Lube Like Someone Who Knows What They're Doing

Written by: Quanna Experts

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Sexual lubricants have become a popular tool for enhancing sexual pleasure. They are available in different types and formulations and can be used to make sexual activities more comfortable and enjoyable. However, using lubricant incorrectly can cause more harm than good. In this article, we will discuss the dos and don'ts of using lubricant, so you can learn how to apply lube for safe and pleasurable sexual experiences.

Using the Right Type of Lubricant

It is essential to use the right type of lubricant for your sexual activity. There are three main types of lubricants: water-based, oil-based, and silicone-based.


Water-based lubricants are the most versatile and popular type of lube that can be used with any type of condom or sex toy. Oil-based lubricants, on the other hand, can damage latex condoms and increase the risk of STIs. Silicone-based lubricants are long-lasting making them perfect for anal sex, but should not be used with silicone sex toys as they can cause damage.

Applying the Right Amount

Using too little or too much lubricant can affect the quality of your sex session, whether it is with a partner or solo. Using too little lubricant can cause friction and discomfort while using too much can make things too slippery and decrease sensitivity. A good rule of thumb is to start with a small amount and add more as needed. Remember that you can always add more lube, but it's not easy to remove excess.

Where To Apply Lube To?

The answer to this may seem obvious and not worth asking but it’s always important to educate everyone no matter their level of experience.


Lube is best applied to the sexual genitals whether it's the vagina or penis for both sexual intercourse with a partner or solo masturbation.


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Using Lubricant with Condoms

Lubricant can enhance the pleasure of using condoms, but it is important to use it correctly. Apply the lubricant to the outside of the condom after it is on the penis or sex toy like a dildo. Do not use oil-based lubricants with latex condoms as they can cause the condom to break. Water-based or silicone-based lubricants are safe to use with condoms.

Using Lubricant with Sex Toys

Using lubricant with sex toys can make them more comfortable and enjoyable. However, it is essential to use the right type of lubricant for your sex toy. Silicone-based lubricants should not be used with silicone sex toys as they can cause damage. Water-based lubricants are safe to use with all sex toys, including silicone toys.

Cleaning Up After Use

After using lubricant, it is essential to clean up properly. Water-based lubricants are easy to clean up with soap and water. Oil-based lubricants require more effort to clean up and can leave stains on fabrics. Silicone-based lubricants are non-water-soluble and require soap and water to clean up properly.

Storing Lubricant Correctly

Lubricants should be stored correctly to prevent contamination and degradation. Water-based lubricants should be stored in a cool, dry place. Oil-based lubricants should be stored away from heat and direct sunlight. Silicone-based lubricants should be stored in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. And remember to always check the expiration date before using your lube.

Using Lubricant Safely

While lubricant can enhance sexual pleasure, it is essential to use it safely. If you experience any irritation or discomfort, stop using the lubricant immediately. If you have a history of allergies, it is essential to test the lubricant on a small patch of skin before using it during sexual activity. Lubricants should not be used as a contraceptive or as a substitute for condoms.

Conclusion

Using lubricant can enhance your sexual experience, but it is essential to use it correctly. Always use the right type of lubricant for your sexual activity and apply the right amount. Use lubricant safely with condoms and sex toys, and clean up properly after use.


Store lubricant correctly to prevent contamination and degradation. If you experience any irritation or discomfort, stop using the lubricant immediately.


By following these dos and don'ts, you can have a safe and pleasurable experience using lubricant.